ESSENTIENCE
A new gateway to growth
" You sense it - that quiet knowing that there is more to discover within you.
You are not alone. "
We are Tarik and Sebastiaan
Together, we have 40+ years of experience in personal training and wellness coaching.
We know how it feels to sense that something is missing.. It happened to us both.
The body was trained, but the mind at times restless. The discipline was there, but the depth was missing. Over time, we discovered what had been missing: not more effort, but more integration.
A way of living that honors every layer of the self - not in isolation, but in harmony.
We created our Four Pillars Framework as a map to this wholeness - uniting Physical practice, Emotional presence, Mental clarity and Spiritual connection.
To give you the tools to thrive and experience this integrated transformation on your journey..
Essentience was born.

Essence: The innate fabric of existence
Sentience: The knowing of self and others
Essence + Sentience = Essentience
THE FOUR PILLARS
Our approach is built on the Four Pillars that make up you.
Which one are you most drawn to?

BODY
Physical
To experience
The active nature of our embodied experience: moving center.

HEART
Emotional
To feel
The deep nature of our feelings, needs and wants: emotional center.

MIND
Intellectual
To understand
The thinking nature of our analyzed experience: intellectual center.

SOUL
Spiritual
To sense
The sensing nature of our shared connected intuition: invisible center.
Essentience is the thread that connects these Four Pillars - offering you a path of integrated growth.
WHAT WE OFFER
Our offerings are made to provide you with actionable insights. Things you can do, here and now - to take ownership and support your journey towards self-actualization.
WHAT OTHERS SAY

David Brown
Tarik and I have worked together for two years during which he has been a personal coach, provided consulting on developing the company’s approach to employee wellbeing, and provided coaching to our office staff. On a personal level Tarik has helped me challenge my priorities, habits and opinions to become more self-aware, focussed and goal-oriented both physically and mentally – a better ‘corporate athlete’. I highly recommend Tarik to individuals and organisations seeking a holistic wellbeing specialist and a personal coach.

Gonzalo de la Torre
Working with Tarik had a profound and lasting impact on both my physical and mental wellbeing. His coaching extended far beyond fitness, helping me cultivate focus and self-awareness, which significantly enhanced my performance in both my personal and professional life. His approach sharpened my decision-making, improved my work ethic, and helped me tackle challenges with a clear mindset. Even years after our sessions ended, we remain in touch, and I continue to draw on the lessons he imparted.

Marija Trajkovic
My husband and I have trained for 8 years under Sebas’s guidance, and every session affirms his exceptional mastery of the craft. He blends deep knowledge of human anatomy with almost weight-free methods focused on movement and flexibility. What sets him apart is his ability to truly listen as he tailored each session, keeping a constant eye on any aches or movement limitations. Every session felt personal, safe and still challenging. Sebastiaan possesses a rare physical intelligence and a genuine interest in the person behind the body.
What you can expect
At Essentience, we meet you where you are and guide you on a journey of self-discovery towards deep, integrated meaning and self-actualization.
Connect your body, heart, mind and soul
Explore the science. Apply it through movement, feel it in your body. Awaken emotional, philosophical, spiritual inside and gain experiential wisdom.
Find community and connection
Share encouragement with a network of like-minded people each on their own growth journeys.
Come and explore with us
We are offering you early access to the Four Pillars Framework and our unique Essentience Card Deck.
Imagine stepping through a gateway to a more fulfilling life. A life where you are tuned in with your essence, to your purpose, nurturing your whole being as one.
Are you ready?
Join The Journey